Your Big Date Starts Here
A1 Dating News
2009-07-27  June 17, 2009

The competition for attention on online dating services is intense. So intense, in fact, that some people resort to lying or posting outdated photos to try and attract that next date.

Its vital that you are honest in your profile and through your photos so that you dont meet with others under false pretenses. So then what are some important things you can do to build a better profile? Here are three specific profile tips you can use to improve your profile right now.


1) Avoid Negativity

Have you ever gone out on a first date where the person you were with complained about his/her work, ex, etc? Such negative talk is a major turnoff. Likewise, negativity is a major turnoff in your profile. Being positive is like a magnet. Being negative is like wearing a skunk aroma. If you have anything negative in your profile (I hate country music, the last guy I dated was a liar and cheater, Im sick of being alone, Im sick of the bar scene, etc.) then go edit it out immediately and replace it with something positive (I love independent music and artists, like...). Always be positive; not just in your profile, but also in life.


2) Go From Typical to Unique

Use clever words that are descriptive. Instead of saying on hot days I like to go to the ocean or on a hike, say, on a sizzling day my adventurous side leads me to traversing the ocean on a sailboat or discovering a new waterfall that I can cool off under.

Instead of I like to discover new things, say, Im a lot like Indiana Jones in that I love exploring the mysteries of life, while educating my mind to appreciate new things.

Strive to make your profile unordinary by spicing it up sentence by sentence. Be descriptive, unique, and fun!


3) Filter Out Unwanteds

Your profile isnt about getting responses. It is about getting responses from the type of person you are attracted to. Therefore, use descriptions to help narrow your focus to what you want so that you get responses from who youre looking for.

Instead of Im looking for someone fun and humorous, say, Im looking for a lighthearted man between the ages of 24 and 29 who enjoys the humorous side of life. If you are clean-shaven and can hold a conversation during a 150 mile car journey, then we may be a match. Email me. Youve helped tell the person what the next step is if they meet your criteria. Youve created a call to action, which will help direct interested parties to email you versus waiting.


Bonus Tip

Change your
header message and main photo often. It keeps it fresh and interesting for people doing searches and increases the chances of it being viewed. Be creative.

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